Written by ExecAdmin
Friday, May 7th, 2010
I a word where the word faithful is throw around like a four letter word ZionReborn Aims to give us married folds 4 tips on how to stay faithful!
1: Maturity!
If you want to make a marriage work you must at least be equally yolked. Its an old biblical theory that today means in order to stay true and stay faithful, first you both must be mature enough to get married. If you have any doubts, before saying I do…don’t. The doubts are a way of telling you that you are not ready for marriage, or perhaps this is not the right person to marry. Perhaps, the love is not strong enough within for this person. Don’t rush into anything you’re not ready for, as this is a sure fire recipe for disaster. Think of it this way, why would you start a marriage when you are already unhappy? You’re entering into an eternal Bond with someone and else and GOD! God doesn’t take this lightly, for he notes;
I the Lord Hate divorce
Yea - Thats you - Flirting!...tisk, tisk
Step 2 – You Freakin’ FLIRT!
Do not flirt. You are married now. Think of how you would feel if you caught your spouse flirting with another man/woman. This will also lead to the possibility of being unfaithful, should the flirting go too far. This stuff was cure when you were in college or younger, at this point as a married individual you’ve got greater responsibilities to yourself, your faith and your spouse! Carry that with you wherever you go it will help you remember how to carry yourself, as you carry your loved one’s heart with you wherever you go.
Do not put yourself in the position of being alone with the opposite sex. This can lead to the act of being unfaithful, without much thought or action. It will also put doubt into your spouses mind, should he/she find out. I suppose you have heard the old saying; “What is good for the goose is good for the gander!”, well this can apply to cheating. He/she may decide to get even, should they doubt. If you being real(if not make your exit now) we all know that part of being faithful begins with NOT putting yourself in bad positions, former athletes can attest to this, fi you put yourself in a bad position in the sports world what happens?…you fail. Half the battle is winning the mental game, challenging your flesh do do what it does not want to do. be minded, this will not be an easy task I don’t care who you are, your flesh has something to say each time you’re in situations such as these. Be strong of mind and will.
In summary, to stay faithful, always think of your spouse first. Would he/she approve of your behavior? Would you approve if you should observe your spouse acting in this manner? Your behavior is the key to staying faithful to your spouse. Think before you act, in order to stay faithful to your spouse.
(Partial Credit – E-How)
