Good Soldier

I’ve learned in life that there are somethings that you simply have to go through in order to learn its true lesson and the value of it. There are times in which you simply have to grit your teeth and bare the burden which was given to you in such a fashion that it could be called nothing short of heroic.

I’m here to remind you that yes it will be tough to do this especially if you know that you can do so much better than your current situation. There are times when you are dealt blow after blow, some of which bring you to your knees, but you’ve simply got to endure like a good soldier – Field those punches and show your strength in your ability to not trade evil for evil.

We’ve all heard the old saying “walk a mile in my shoes, and you’ll know where I’ve been” ..well for those of you who have walked that mile, I tip my hat to you, for I’ve finished my first mile in the shoes of my father and let me tell you  friend- it ain’t pretty. I used to think it was no biggie to do what my father did – to take on all his responsibilities and field them like a pro. I was doing well for a while, but then things seemed to pile on on top of each other I see now what kind of strength it took to hold it together.

Some of us take for granted what our parents went through to make things seem good on our end, all in an effort to shield you from the realities of life. They attempt to be a vanguard against these things for us when we are young in order that we may live out our childhoods as we should. Now that I bare these responsibilities myself and from the lessons my father have laid down and from the strong examples he has set, I know what it is that I must do and these things I do gladly.

1: Be a man – Nothing More to be said here.

2: Take responsibility for ALL – Not for Some but for ALL of your actions

3: Have broad shoulders when it comes to family and issues relating to family – you can never bare enough. Here’s why..I’m willing to be there are people in your family who would be crushed under the immense weight of these pressures but you’ve some how found a knack for dealing with problems.

4:  Lead your family with strong hands – learn to be a rcck, as Christ our example is always a rock in a weary place and a shelter in time’s of storm

5: Be ready for anything – yea, yea, I know – that may not be always possible – BUT be reminded of this, you may not be ready but you’ve got the Big Guy always looking out for you. So you either one of two things and most times both..you’re ready or in a position to react

In the face of this new adversity I am reminded of  Philippians 1:6, “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” so no matter how hard the blows come, or how heavy they may be he’s not forgotten me, I’m sure of this and what he started in me he will indeed finish, for he will do what he says he would do,  and I am what he says I am..I am a good soldier.

1: Maturity!

If you want to make a marriage work you must at least be equally yolked. Its an old biblical theory that today means in order to stay true and stay faithful, first you both must be mature enough to get married. If you have any doubts, before saying I do…don’t. The doubts are a way of telling you that you are not ready for marriage, or perhaps this is not the right person to marry. Perhaps, the love is not strong enough within for this person. Don’t rush into anything you’re not ready for, as this is a sure fire recipe for disaster. Think of it this way, why would you start a marriage when you are already unhappy? You’re entering into an eternal Bond with someone and else and GOD! God doesn’t take this lightly, for he notes;

I the Lord Hate divorce

Yea - Thats you - Flirting!...tisk, tisk

Step 2 – You Freakin’ FLIRT!

Do not flirt. You are married now. Think of how you would feel if you caught your spouse flirting with another man/woman. This will also lead to the possibility of being unfaithful, should the flirting go too far. This stuff was cure when you were in college or younger, at this point as a married individual you’ve got greater responsibilities to yourself, your faith and your spouse! Carry that with you wherever you go it will help you remember how to carry yourself, as you carry your loved one’s heart with you wherever you go.

Do not put yourself in the position of being alone with the opposite sex. This can lead to the act of being unfaithful, without much thought or action. It will also put doubt into your spouses mind, should he/she find out. I suppose you have heard the old saying; “What is good for the goose is good for the gander!”, well this can apply to cheating. He/she may decide to get even, should they doubt. If you being real(if not make your exit now) we all know that part of being faithful begins with NOT putting yourself in bad positions, former athletes can attest to this, fi you put yourself in a bad position in the sports world what happens?…you fail. Half the battle is winning the mental game, challenging your flesh do do what it does not want to do. be minded, this will not be an easy task I don’t care who you are, your flesh has something to say each time you’re in situations such as these. Be strong of mind and will.

In summary, to stay faithful, always think of your spouse first. Would he/she approve of your behavior? Would you approve if you should observe your spouse acting in this manner? Your behavior is the key to staying faithful to your spouse. Think before you act, in order to stay faithful to your spouse.
(Partial Credit – E-How)

Where's the Help key...Anybody?

Something happened to me today that validated my faith in such a way that my life will never be the same. Something kind of strange, weird if you will, but in a way was so divinely orchestrated that it could only be the fine tuned will of God that lead me and my wife down this path.

Earlier During the day me and my wife bantered about where we should go eat and when we should go, we did what we always do at this point what essentially is a big game of restaurant brainstorming we begin throwing out names and deciding if 1: are we willing to drive that far 2: Is this really worth the drive 3: will we regret this later! So we decided on a food joint and headed out, at this point more than half way there my wife says “wow, there’s lots of traffic we may be better off going to that other place instead” as the other side of the road was free and clear.(Stay with me I’m going somewhere)

Here we are, just about a block away from our original destination and I’m thinking logically(like a man..lol!) this new wild card idea makes no sense why not just keep going in slow traffic for a block and stick to the original plan?  Strangely, without further thought I simply made a U-Turn heading now on a much longer journey than originally planned several miles out.

We finally arrive at our destination, my wife goes ahead to place our order, I stay behind to shift somethings around in the trunk. As I walked up to this restaurant, I see a lady sitting on a bench a few feet from the door, I almost walked by her, as her call to me was so subtle and shy through the pane glass door. At first I didn’t think that it was me she was calling to, but I peered around the door and asked her if it was me that she was calling to. As I walked up to her you could see the pain in her eyes, the sheer but brazen fear of swallowing your pride and asking a stranger for help. At first she held her hands close to her chest and whispered what sounded like “a little help…anything to help me?” I leaned in as I could hardly decipher what she was saying initially as her accent was strong, her voice low from the shame of asking a stranger for help, as I stepped closer I could now hear the pain in her voice as she repeated:

“a little help…anything to help me If it’s even a little food..anything?”

I said to her, I don’t have cash on me, but what I do have I will give to you, I walked inside and ordered her some food, told my wife what was happening and walked back outside and asked her “what happened, why and how are you in this current position…something happened, I’m here for you”.  I’ve learned everyone has a story, it only takes someone to say to them, I’m here for you and am willing to listen, willing to let you cry on my shoulders. My shoulders are broad not because I’m some sort of he-man but because my shoulders are built on nothing less than God’s unwavering strength.

She began to pour out her soul, telling us how long she has been looking for work, how long she has walked these roads and asking for a job with no results. pointing to the countless number of business cards given to her with promises of a job opportunity only to find it was all just talk. At this point she extols that if its even to scrape the feces off someone’s lawn there, is no job too “low” as long as long as it is legitimate.  In the midst of this she then said something surprising…something amazing, she says that she still “believes in God the almighty” and in agreement with me she confirms the goodness of God even in this her darkest hour.

Here, at the footstool of mercy this brave lady exercises her faith for the word says

“Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?”

She sat and was still, allowed God to show his faithfulness, there in faith as countless people passed her by she waited for God to meet her needs as he promised! For the last few years there’s a particular passage in Matthew that has been impressed upon my heart, it’s one of the reasons for starting this site, It’s with me and embedded a change in my life and though this woman wasn’t the first who that we’ve encountered and helped in a situation such as this, this woman was the apidamy of all that this passage spoke about, Jesus said

“35For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

37“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

40“The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’

And Yet I can’t help but wonder, what if I had chosen to go somewhere else today, what If I had chosen not to eat at this particular place. How was it that I was the one chosen today to help bring a little light into someone’s life on this day at this time and at this moment in their life?

Just think about it for a moment, this lady was at this spot for who knows how long, as person after person passed her, as she asked for food and a little help finding a Job. Meanwhile, miles away as me and my wife jostled about where were wanted to go for dinner and let’s not leave too late as it’s getting dark outside, all the while God had already decided where I was going, and when I would leave to meet this lady’s need in destiny and by divine appointment.

God knew this lady needed our help today, God knew she needed our ears to hear her problems and to confirm her faith with our encouragement that God has not forgotten her, rather, he sent us here today to help you in this moment, in this your darkest hour to prove to you that he is still here, that he hears and answers prayers. He didn’t send you someone who would judge you and give you food to eat while thinking “why can’t she get a job” Instead the Lord sent two people who he has broken, two people he had molded from emptiness of spirit, two people who were birthed of his grace and knows that each opportunity we’re presented, everything we’ve got, we got in the presence of God.

I’ve come today to remind you, to remind us all – -that, that homeless person you passed today on the street, that beggar that you refused, that person we looked down on today that may be less fortunate that me or you…Each time you leave them there when you’re in a position to help, each time you simply pass them by without so much of a glance, that’s Jesus that we leave hungry, It’s Jesus that we leave out in the cold. Slow down take a second look and you will see the God in these people…how much longer shall we pass them by?

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Walt Walker

ZionReborn.com

I know that the flowers fade, and the grass withers, but the word of the Lord shall stand forever(T.D. Jakes)